So, you’ve swiped right, binge-watched entire Netflix series, survived IKEA trips without breaking up, and now you're thinking of buying a house together. First off, congrats! That’s a huge step. And while you may not have rings on your fingers (yet), you're ready to put your names on a mortgage—and that’s serious commitment.
But here’s the deal: buying property as an unmarried couple in Canada (yes, that includes you, dear reader in Winnipeg) isn’t exactly the same as doing it solo or as a legally married couple. There are a few extra hoops to jump through and a few awkward but necessary conversations to have.
No worries—we’ve got you covered. Here’s your no-fluff, full-picture guide to buying a home together without a marriage license.
1. Start With “The Talk” (Yes, Another One)
This might not be as romantic as talking about your dream home, but money matters and expectations need to be crystal clear before anything else.
Discuss things like:
How much can each of you afford to contribute?
How will you divide ownership? (50/50? 70/30?)
Who pays for what—down payment, monthly mortgage, maintenance, property taxes, renovations, emergency repairs, etc.?
What happens if one of you wants to sell or move out?
What if things... end?
It may feel a bit like prenup-lite, but trust us—it’ll save you from potential heartache and headaches down the line.
2. Understanding Ownership Structures in Canada
In Canada, there are two main ways to co-own a property:
a. Joint Tenancy
This means equal ownership. If one of you passes away, the other automatically inherits the deceased’s share (called the right of survivorship). It’s simple and tidy—but only if you want it to be exactly 50/50.
Important: In Manitoba (and Canada in general), joint tenancy assumes equal ownership—even if one person pays significantly more. So if you're paying 70% of everything and still agree to joint tenancy, you're essentially gifting your partner the difference.
b. Tenants in Common
This allows for unequal ownership splits—like 60/40 or 70/30. You each own a specific share of the property. If something happens to one partner, their share passes on according to their will, not automatically to the other owner.
This is a great option if one of you is contributing more financially. It’s also more flexible... but comes with slightly more paperwork.
3. Get a Cohabitation Agreement (Seriously, Do It)
This is the most important step.
A cohabitation agreement is a legally binding document that outlines:
Who owns what percentage of the property
Who pays for what
What happens if you break up or one person wants out
How the equity will be split
Who gets the dog (okay, maybe not legally binding—but worth discussing!)
Even though Manitoba does recognize common-law relationships after living together for three years (or having a child together), that doesn't mean everything automatically splits 50/50 like it would in a divorce.
The agreement protects both of you—and it shows maturity and foresight, not mistrust.
💡 Pro tip: Hire a lawyer. Better yet, hire separate lawyers to make sure both parties are fairly represented.
4. Nail Down the Finances (A.K.A. Time for Spreadsheets)
Now that the tough talk is done, let’s crunch some numbers. Here are the key financial elements you'll need to sort out:
a. The Down Payment
In Canada, the minimum down payment is:
5% for homes under $500,000
5% of the first $500K and 10% of the portion over $500K (up to $1M)
20% or more if you're avoiding CMHC mortgage insurance
Decide how much each of you is contributing. If it’s unequal, document it clearly.
b. Mortgage Approval
You can apply for a joint mortgage, which means both your incomes and credit scores are considered. That’s great if both your finances are solid.
But… if one of you has less-than-stellar credit, it could affect your rate or approval. In that case, speak to a mortgage broker about your options.
c. Property Title vs. Mortgage
Just because both your names are on the mortgage doesn't automatically mean you both own the property equally. That’s determined by the title—so make sure it aligns with your agreement.
5. Budget for All the Extra Costs
Buying a home in Canada comes with more than just a down payment. Don't forget to account for:
Closing costs (1.5–4% of the purchase price)
Legal fees
Title insurance
Property taxes
Home inspection and appraisal fees
Land Transfer Tax (In Manitoba, you’ll pay this on a sliding scale based on property value. Fun!)
And of course… moving costs, new furniture, and that emergency “why is the basement leaking” fund.
6. Pick the Right Property (and the Right Realtor)
House-hunting as a couple is both exciting and revealing. One of you wants an open-concept modern condo downtown, the other dreams of a character-filled house in St. Boniface. Sound familiar?
Start by listing out your non-negotiables and nice-to-haves, then find the overlap.
Make sure you work with a real estate agent who’s familiar with helping unmarried couples. They can walk you through co-ownership specifics and flag potential red flags.
7. Plan for the “What Ifs” (It’s Not a Jinx, It’s Just Smart)
No one wants to think about breaking up when you’re buying your dream home together—but it’s important. You wouldn’t go on a road trip without checking the spare tire, right?
Your cohabitation agreement should cover:
What happens if one person wants to sell and the other doesn’t
A buyout clause
How to handle disagreements
Who lives in the home if you split up (especially if kids are involved later)
You’re not planning for failure—you’re planning for peace of mind.
8. Don’t Forget the Insurance Talk
You’ve probably got home insurance on your radar. But don’t stop there.
Think about:
Life insurance: So the mortgage doesn’t fall entirely on one person if the worst happens.
Disability insurance: To cover mortgage payments if one of you can’t work for a while.
Contents insurance: To protect all the stuff inside the home you’re working so hard to furnish.
9. Talk to a Lawyer or Notary Before Signing Anything
Once you’ve made all these decisions, bring in the pros.
Get a real estate lawyer to draft or review your agreement, walk through your mortgage and title setup, and make sure everything is legal and binding. This is not the time to rely on “we trust each other.”
Final Thoughts: Love Smart, Buy Smart
Buying a home together as an unmarried couple in Canada can be a beautiful step forward in your relationship—but it comes with real responsibilities.
Yes, you’re building a future. But you’re also building equity, sharing legal obligations, and creating something that requires solid communication, clear planning, and a lot of honesty.
With the right prep, the right professionals, and a good sense of humour when the reno quotes roll in, you’ll not only survive the homebuying process—you’ll thrive in it.
Ready to take the next step together?
Before you dive into listings, let’s make sure your partnership and paperwork are just as strong as your Pinterest boards.
💡Contact Ty to get connected with Winnipeg-based experts who’ll walk you through every step—with the clarity, care, and coffee you deserve.